We had a nice chat with another brave African child who went through a lot but still stands strong. Tovhowani Makondo (31) is from Ndzhelele, Venda, Limpopo Province in South Africa but now residing in Nobody, around Mankweng township. Rise Africans Newspaper, Mr Phuti Ramaphakela was amazed by humble and confident that come out of an entrepreneur and a defender of LGBTiq rights family.
“I found out that I am HIV positive in 2014 around month of May at Weskoppies Hospital (public psychiatric hospital in Pretoria, Gauteng) after been diagnosed with depression and dealing with lots of pressure. I stayed there for a period of 8 months and was shocked after 2 months when I was told that I am HIV positive. I was also scared but was surrounded by professional people who supported me and educated me even though it was not easy”, said Tovhowani.
Beyonce Makondo, as popularly known, told us about the challenge of facing the public. After been released for the hospital, he saw the best option of posting his status on Facebook as a way out. Surprising people gave him lots of support instead of judging.
“I did not really care much about the stigma I received via Facebook comments. I am brave and do not blame anyone for my status. The most important now is my health and being happy. Being HIV does not mean is the end of world. If you take your medicine well and take care of yourself then you will be fine. Do not worry about what people are saying, let them talk till they get tired, lets beat the stigma around our community”, added Beyonce.
The most important thing our community can do is support. No one is allowed to judge other person until knowing his or her status. We need more brave and supportive people in our community.
People who need support and motivation are free to contact Beyonce on Facebook: Queen Beyonce Makondo or via whatsapp: 071 365 7390
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